“Therefore shall a man leave his father and mother and be united to his wife: and they shall become one flesh.” (Genesis 2:24).
Based on this verse we can conclude, that the God of marriage is when a man broke away from her parents for one with his wife and become one flesh with him.
‘Breakaway’ and ‘integrated’ is included in a proposition, and should take place in that order. This means the replacement of the human ties that a (child-parent) with other human bond (husband-wife). There are some similarities in the two ties, the relationship is the same for both complex and contains several elements.
There is the physical element (the one in the form conceived, born and breastfed and the other in the form of intercourse), the emotional elements (to grow, as the process of development of dependency relationships during childhood into adulthood with a partner relationship for ever), and social elements ( children inherit an existing family unit, the husband-wife created a new unit).
But there is also an essential inequality between the two, because the biblical phrase ‘one flesh’ indicates that the unity of husband and wife are physically, emotionally and socially are much more profound and mysterious personal nature of the relationship between the children with their parents, so that it can say: ” failure to achieve a minimum of emotional independence is one of the main embryo destruction of marriage.
Genesis 2:24 implies that the bond of marriage is an exclusive (a man … and … his wife) with the consent of the people (his father and mother), permanent (together with his wife) has fulfilled through sexual intercourse (become one flesh).
Thus, the biblical definition of marriage sounds as follows: “Marriage is a promise of an exclusive bond between a man and heterosexual men and one woman, ordained and endorsed by God, is preceded by the departure of leaving the parents with the knowledge of the people, achieve fulfillment fully in sexual intercourse, become a permanent partner support each other, and often crowned with the award of the children ‘.
Anything not to cancel the marriage, but the reality of divorce (marriage decision) from year to year, the higher, the sociological causes of this increase in the number of divorces are many and varied kinds. Included in the emancipation of women, and changes in search patterns of maintenance (both parents work).
Pressures on family life due to financial difficulties because of unemployment also has triggered a number of divorces and of course also a facility that provided the law of marriage to divorce getting a divorce swing freely past the limits of religious law.
But above all things, the most important reason for the collapse of marriage is the image of backwardness of the Christian faith is fading along with his commitment to the Christian understanding of the sacredness and permanence of marriage.
Divorce is allowed in certain extreme circumstances, but if it is allowed, it remains a binding determination of the deviation from the intent and will of God, in principle, marriage is a bond for life and divorce is a breach of contract, an act of treason.
As it says … God hates … “And the second is that you do: You cover the altar of the LORD with tears, with weeping and groaning, because he no longer turn to the presentation and was not pleased to receive from your hand. And you ask: “Why?” Because the Lord is witness between you and the wife of your youth with whom you have faith, though she is your partner and spouse.
Is not the One God made them flesh and spirit? And if the union is required? Sons of the divine! So take care of yourself! And let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth.
For I hate divorce, says the Lord, the God of Israel – as well as those who cover up his clothes by force, says the LORD of hosts. So keep yourself and do not sell out! (Malachi 2:13-16).