Career Woman or Female Kitchen
Various seminars on women’s career has been held, but until now has not a single one who could answer the woman’s struggle completely. They remain problematic, “Career or Kitchen” especially in Indonesia.
The emergence of women in top positions, it makes the men marveled at a time of anxiety, so do not be surprised if a group of men searching for their vulnerable point. Women are considered less practical way of thinking, emotional, vulnerable, easily influenced state, and others.
But after a woman with a dual role, as well as the kitchen has a tendency career involved more problems than those who have not / do not settle down, things like the health of children, live with in-laws, husbands are often on duty outside the city and many more problems faced and all that could be the cause of severe stress.
These things are a little more influence thinking or attitudes in the workplace, even if it included women “Iron” indifferent household environment.
Psalm 128:3 matron called as “Fruit Wine” a sweet (and his words said), and the limbs are not sturdy enough to build the foundations of buildings. It is clear that the wife is not obliged even not recommended to be the backbone of the family (who had worked furiously to make a living from morning till night) while my husband and children are neglected.
In another part, the Word of God explained that the wife is required to explore inner beauty, hope fully surrender to God and to love and submit to the authority of the husband as the representative of God on Earth and the husband shall be subject to Christ, of course.
Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear.
Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.
Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered. (1 Peter 3:1-7)
Even so, Proverbs 31:10-31 clearly describes the ideal wife, manage his household and work diligently. He knew exactly when her husband and his family needed his presence. Likewise, he knows when to go out and work. He is not just a clever divide the time, but even more so he adept support her husband. He submits to her husband, but also not lazy thinking about the future of his family. It was great, my husband and children praise and call it happy!
Women have a very heavy responsibility, but really only one vocation, namely to serve. Hand, the portion of that option should be taken .. when he decided to serve more in the household, and when he must be outside his home. Each has a basic consideration in accordance with the conditions of the family, ages of children, the needs of surrounding communities, the economic level, education level, and most importantly God’s call.
There is one passage in the Bible which tells of a woman’s courage in saving a nation, he was the Queen Esther. He took the role of the Big Shot to help his people, a huge service sector. Consideration should be cooked properly because one little step, to sacrifice his household. But we know how God used Esther eventually to serve and save the Jewish nation, while also strengthening the household of God!
What about you as a wife who has a husband and mother of the children? “Success is not determined by place of women as well as the type of work, but by his sincerity in regulating employment and their households.”